> Les numéros > Scumgrrrls N° 17 - Printemps / Spring 2010

In the Name of the Father

When going to law school in the 1990s, I was taught that directly discriminatory laws are a thing of the past. That is, since the 1970s European countries have made an effort to abolish legislation that is not sex neutral but that gives preference to one or the other sex. Well, it is easy to make law students believe fairy tales about well meaning legislators and law as a means for equality, but as I recently learnt, reality is quite a different matter ! (Note, of course reality has struck me a few more times between the 1990s and now…).

When having my baby in Belgium, I was sure that my (male) partner and I would be able to choose our child’s name, that the child could either have mine or my partner’s last name. But no ! Article 335 of the Belgian Civil Code states that :

A child whose paternal filiation alone is established or whose paternal and maternal filiation is established at the same time shall bear the surname of its father unless the father is married and recognises a child conceived during marriage by a woman other than his spouse.

That is, as soon as there is a father in sight who wishes to recognize his fatherhood, the child will get the father’s last name. The only exception being if the man in question is already married to another woman… This is obviously a directly discriminatory provision. However, it is not only discriminatory based on sex, but as it is applied to nationals of other EU countries residing in Belgium, it is also as has been confirmed by the European Court of Justice discriminatory based on nationality. In the early 2000s, Mr Garcia Avallo brought a case before the European Court of Justice after the Belgian authorities had refused a name change for his and his Belgian spouse’s children. The Court found that, yes, the Belgian law was discriminatory, but as there is an administrative procedure in place that allows people to apply for name changes the discriminatory law as such does not have to be changed. And, yes, there is an administrative procedure. It is possible to demand a change of name through a specific procedure at the Ministry of Justice. (It should be noted that in a later case, the European Court of Justice has stated that administrative procedures are not enough to right discriminatory laws as outcomes of such administrative procedures cannot be guaranteed.

For the purpose of Scum Grrrls I did a small and rather unscientific empirical study about what people (mostly Belgians) thought about this law. I got three different responses that I have named (in Scum Grrrls I have the right to name !) : 1) the social cohesion response ; 2) the natural law response ; and 3) the uninformed feminist response. By way of conclusion, I will shortly address these three responses here :

• The respondents that chose the social cohesion argument actually argued in line with the Belgian State’s arguments in the European Court of Justice case. According to these respondents, every society needs to ensure that there is some way to identify parentage and the Belgian government’s approach is as good as any other way. The European Court of Justice’s response to the social cohesion argument was that Europe is already so heterogeneous and a melting pot of naming traditions, so we cannot (and should not) rely on one state’s traditions for deciding names. I would like to add that what the Belgian law actually does is not to ensure a homogenous naming practice, but to ensure that children that are born by mothers living in a heterosexual relationship can be distinguished from other children ;

• I was actually very surprised that quite a few respondents chose to rely on a natural law argument. According to these respondents, a mother gives life to the child, but a father has nothing to give except his name. Well, my only comment to this argument would be : Is this really how useless fathers are viewed in Belgium ? I am certainly hoping that the father of my child can give him a little bit more…

• The respondents in the third category were those who had followed the media debates after the Mr Garcia Avallo v. Belgian Government Case and who believed that because a legal change had been discussed, the law had actually been changed. I suppose that it is not only me who is on occasion fooled by fairytales about equality already attained.


En donnant naissance àmon bébé en Belgique, j’étais sure que mon partenaire (masculin) et moi-même pourrions choisir le nom de famille de notre enfant, soit le mien soit celui de mon partenaire, mais il n’en a rien été !


Toen ik mijn baby kreeg in België , was ik er zeker van dat mijn (mannelijke) partner en ik de naam van ons kind zouden kunnen kiezen, en dat het kind zowel mijn achternaam als die van mijn partner zou kunnen krijgen. Maar dat bleek niet het geval...